I just got back from visiting family for Thanksgiving, and as I was unpacking—wondering why I packed three jackets for a two-day trip—I found myself reflecting on this holiday we all celebrate without question.

Every year, millions of us squeeze into airports, survive delays, and sit through long flights or road trips… all to be with family. No matter how busy life gets, something about Thanksgiving pulls us home.

And somewhere in that reflection came the second, more important question:

Why does a turkey have to take one for the team every single year for us to feel complete?
Maybe the turkey is more than a meal. Maybe it’s the quiet hero of Thanksgiving—the bird that brings us all together whether we admit it or not.

But Thanksgiving has become more than a plate of food.
It’s the day we gather around the TV to watch my beloved Dallas Cowboys take on the not-so-American team—the Kansas City Chiefs. It’s also the annual tradition of watching the Detroit Lions try their absolute best not to be the opposite of a roar. Somehow, hope and disappointment are both served alongside the mashed potatoes.

Then there are the kids—glued to their phones, communicating in emojis, pretending they’re fully present while secretly waiting for a surprise gift to magically appear.
Family life at its finest.

And yet, in the middle of all that chaos, something beautiful happens.

Family grounds us.
Family is the group that knows your story from the beginning: the wins, the struggles, the quiet moments of growth, and the loud moments of “I told you so.” They know how to make you laugh, how to humble you, and how to remind you that no matter how far you go, you come from somewhere.

When we finally sit down together—around the table, on the couch, or yelling at the TV—something inside settles.
Your soul exhales.
Laughter comes easier.
Your priorities realign.
You remember what matters beyond the deadlines, the meetings, and the constant hustle.

That’s why we travel.
That’s why airports are full.
That’s why the turkey ends up on the table every single year—because family feeds a part of us that nothing else can reach.

The turkey may fill the stomach.
But family fills everything else.

So one brave turkey has to take one for the team so we can walk away a little lighter, a little happier, and a whole lot more connected…  that’s Thanksgiving!

Anthony Ndungu, PhD. MBA, RN
Entrepreneur | Leader | Growth Advocate
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